Last year, God placed me in a private Catholic school, where I was to teach and guide young people. While there, I was able to freely talk of my moral beliefs and preach constantly about God’s Holy Word. While I saw some sad stories and had a few difficult children, I am only now learning how easy I had it.
Now, I am substitute teaching in another school district. The last few days have found me at the High School, working both as a PE and an Art teacher. I thought I had mentally prepared myself for what I was going to see; after all, I was a public school kid, myself. I was more than wrong. As I stepped inside this microcosm, shock overtook me. I watched as fifteen and fourteen year old kids slid their hands all over each other. As a military brat, I have never heard such foul language so often. But, the most saddening aspect: these grown up children move through their day like dead people. Many children never show any expression; rather, they eerily resemble zombies. However, even those who exude some expression, share a characteristic with the others. There is no life in their eyes.
I have spent the last three days searching for it. My sisters have it. I have it. My brothers and fiance have it. Everyone with whom I went to college also had it. That life in their eyes. A spark there that next manifests itself in this all over glow. Innocence. As I scanned the faces of the miniature adults moving through the hallways and entering my room, I never saw it. All that greeted my search was repetitive darkness and death in their eyes; an absence of life.
Still, I exude Christ. Smiling to every face that actually turns to mine, saying hello, using affirmation and endearments. Most are in vain. However, I have had a few rare moments where, almost like a burst of sunshine, Christ’s love, through his little tool, is poured into the soul of a youth and blooms instantaneously. Eyes lock, a moment of questioning trust, and then, for a moment, I see the spark. What joy unfolds in this child! And, sadly, how alien they find it. Some shut it down, others come beckoning for more. This is my success.
Even though I am only in the lives of these children for a fleeting moment, I may never know what impact I might have on them. I consider myself Christ’s pitcher, into which He pours His love, only to pour it into others. I yearn to be Christ’s pitcher, to be the one full container that shares His love with many empty containers.
I will continue to act as His little teapot, the channel for His divine Love. I pray that these young children will realize that they are just that: His children. And that is okay. I pray that these children find Real Love and understand what it is they are looking for. And, lastly, I pray to always remember to put these young sheep first, before me, that they may receive Christ through me and somewhere always have it. God bless the little children.
2 thoughts on “Death Living in the Hallways: Thoughts from Christ’s Little Teapot”
This is so sad, and I will pray harder than ever for you, as you live Christ’s love. I see that look in some of the kids who come into the library. I’m so thankful that I work with little kids who haven’t lost their joy and wonder at life. God bless you.
Thanks for this, Adrienne. Never underestimate the power of your smile! Sometimes I see people, even friends, frowning, and it seems just wrong. If you can smile, don't deprive people of your smile–they need it so, so much. I know I am guilty of a frown and furrowed brow, especially on certain mornings at certain times of the month, but I still want to smile at everyone and, like you put so eloquently, pour out Love on them. God bless & happy Advent!